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A moment of Self-love

In the fast paced world where we are busier than the bee, let’s take a pause and connect with ourselves. Let us fill our heart with love for our own self. We often seek comfort and love from outside. Our seeking may or may not be fulfilled. So let’s give our self a hug, a comforting moment of tenderness. A moment of inner comfort can go a long way in the journey of inner healing. We can express self-love in many different ways:

    • Treat yourself with your favorite food.

    • Listen to your preferred music.

    • Take a warm shower with essential oils.

    • Thank yourself for coming so far in life.

    • Pause, reflect and love yourself!


Wish my dear readers a moment of love and comfort.

 Feel the love within your heart.


Read the previous articles on this blog:

Embracing the transitions in life with faith
Boundaries: An act of self-love, Part 2
Boundaries, an act of self-love


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